Like other things, love also plays a important role in our life. To discuss this, first we’ve to know what actually love means. We’ll start it from the definition of love. Before it I’ll provide you some basic information about myself. Don’t worry I’ll not make it much lengthy.
Hey, I’m Irshad. I’m of 18 and I’m from Kolkata. Nothing defined me the best except a HS student. If you’re curious to know about my relationship status, so yes I’m in a relationship. My writings are neither dedicated to anyone nor I had writing this from my experience. It’s my self thoughts. So getting back to the topic.
Love is the expression, desire, criterion, emotions, feeling lgs, caring from the one whom love. If you loves a person you’ll trust him/her
Be loyal to him/her. You’ll always be aware of your beloved choices. It’s usual to have ups and downs in love life. It doesn’t mean you’ll breach each other trust and make your ways apart. Perhaps you would have to work on your relationship, enhance more trust and express more love. Researches have proven cuddling and hugging help to reduce stress at certain levels. The person who love you will always care for you. He/she would make sure of what is right and what is wrong for you. Time, trust, loyalty are the key points during this phase in life.
What Is Love?
Many scientists and philosophers have worked hard to provide the accurate definition of love. No one succeed yet. Various definitions are provided by all of them. None is accurate. Here I’ve given some definitions as described by famous philosophers.
Plato: “Any general aspiration towards the good things and to happiness, that’s the Love”
Tolstoy: “Love has always based on the renunciation of individual property”
Descartes: “L” Love is a passion that can arise in us without in any way we could see if the object that causes it is good or bad ”
To know what love actually means for you. Only you can give a reasonable idea for your love. For me,
“Love is a personal desire of individuals by which they feel enthusiastic and completed with the presence of their beloved. “
Being loved or to love somebody is not an achievement rather it’s a emotion through which one found the best match for himself/herself.
Whom To Love?
Love doesn’t mean you can choose a random person and make a pretence to love him/her.Yes, it can be said as days passed your false pretension can changed into real. This is rare. You can only love a person in which you found your mirror image or the qualities you were finding for. Love is the feeling that makes you feel comfortable around him/her. You should find a partner who possess the qualities you want. Like feelings, emotions, patience, desire to love, accompanying, making you feel special, enjoyable, etc. It can be said that true love is hard to find and get. But it’s not impossible.
One-sided Love
Yes, one sided love do exist. It’s not an incorrect approach at all. Forcing someone to love you even if she doesn’t have feelings for you is an incorrect approach. Sometimes it may happen that you love love somebody but he/she don’t want to be a part of your life.So try to understand it. He/she rejected you it means that person is unwilling to break your heart. This kind of love prevails in one life for a quite time. As we grow, we should try to move on with the reality. Later on you can get perfect match for you or someone will find you as his/her perfect match. Again one sided love doesn't mean your love for a celebrity a person from fashion or movie industries or any famous person. Because this is not your true love for them. It’s just an attraction. It happens when you falls for them for their beauty, appearance, looks, etc.
Is it okay to be in relationship during teenage?
Teenage is a period when we’re dealing with studies. It’s hard to make up your mind to find a perfect relationship. Perhaps love is exhibited from heart. Heart is the source of feeling or emotions. On the other hand, mind is for making decision and choosing the right things for you. During teenage, we’ve to opt important decisions for future and career. In the 20s modern era, youngsters find a partner for them in their high schools and college. According to me, it’s not bad to be in a serious relationship during teenage. But getting all involved in in it might be a concerned matter. If one knew to manage time then it’snot a matter of concern. Doesn’t matter what your age is if you’rein a relationship you should’ve to arrange time for your partner.
Relationship along with career
Sometimes it’s seen, individuals are exhausted with their career and relationship constraints. Mind it! Problems shouldn’t consequent to break up. So, starting from basic. A person especially men’s should belong from a good family., must be educated enough to earn bread-butter. Hang on, “educated enough “ doesn’t mean that he should’ve to be the rich in order to marry you. He ought to earn at a level to satisfy his ‘would be wife' requirements.
Now, I know a question arises in your mind, whether money restricts love?
The answer to this is no, not at all. Love has no restrictions. If you love someone and want to marry her. Then should became capable to earn. Or the girl can even do work to balance your(she &you) future.
Key note : Someone who loves you will make every effort to make you his/her.
Getting back to the marked topic(*)
It’s common to have headache regarding career. Due to developing technology and excessive competition, it’s quite tough to get employed. Someone can get frustrated because he/she have to develop a good career and do marriage simultaneously. Thus, we should work hard from our teenage. Then we could easily approach towards desirable marriage. Until that, the couple should keep patience. And the most important they have to keep trust on each other.
Celebration & Surprises
Celebration and surprises are the key terms to ignite more and more love between couple. For eg. Girls or women feels very lovable when their beloved gift them anything. They’re much fond of surprises. Even little gift and surprises can enlighten them. Expressing love is not restricted upto certain age. It keeps going on till life. Nowadays youngster even celebrate monthsary i.e, the repeated term of their ongoing relationship. It’s a point to be noted that girls never falls for materialistic things rather than emotional stuffs.
So that’s it. If you like this please rate my writing and if you don’t like it then also comment me down on my social media about my errors. Thank you
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